Thursday, February 15, 2007

I'm confused...

Where in the unwritten rules of everything, does it say that after you break up with someone you have to ignore eachother and you can't be friends? I've noticed this with absolutely every relationship that has crashed and burned around me. So maybe the two people weren't meant to be soulmates and grow old together but who says the can't still be friends? Huh? I think this is really unhealthy and creates alot of tension bewteen the two people and their friends. So why don't we all just get along? Maybe you weren't meant to be with him or her forever, why can't you make a friend out of them instead?

2 thoughts from other misfits:

Anonymous said...

So true! I think there's a lot of pride involved in the issue, and that's what makes people feel unable to even talk to someone they've broken up with. But it's sad, as we all need friends.

Michele said...

...I'm still friends (actually really good friends with most) of the guy's I've gone out with and broken up with...I dunno what that's trying to say, but not all relationships crash and burn, and the people don't talk...and yes, mine were pretty bad breakups (some of them)

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